An incisive, laugh-out-loud contemporary debut about a Taiwanese-American teen whose parents want her to be a doctor and marry a Taiwanese Ivy Leaguer despite her squeamishness with germs and crush on a Japanese classmate.
At seventeen, Mei should be in high school, but skipping fourth grade was part of her parents’ master plan. Now a freshman at MIT, she is on track to fulfill the rest of this predetermined future: become a doctor, marry a preapproved Taiwanese Ivy Leaguer, produce a litter of babies.
With everything her parents have sacrificed to make her cushy life a reality, Mei can’t bring herself to tell them the truth–that she (1) hates germs, (2) falls asleep in biology lectures, and (3) has a crush on her classmate Darren Takahashi, who is decidedly not Taiwanese.
But when Mei reconnects with her brother, Xing, who is estranged from the family for dating the wrong woman, Mei starts to wonder if all the secrets are truly worth it. Can she find a way to be herself, whoever that is, before her web of lies unravels?
Author: Gloria Chao
Publisher: Simon Pulse
Publication Date: February 6th 2018
*I’m a Book Depository Affiliate 🙂
Ableist Language, Death of a Family Member, Mention of Suicide
Don’t come into this book expecting just a cute contemporary. It’s a story on self-identity, being split between two cultures and finding your path in life. But it’s also a very cute, quick read that melted my heart so…
We’re following Mei, pressured by her parents to become a doctor, go to MIT and marry a Chinese man. Except… she’s a germophobe. And she’s crushing on a her Japanese classmate, Darren… In the beginning, the story’s flow was a bit choppy for me. I got lost a few time and had to backtrack to see how I got there. However, this is a minor problem because everything started rolling smoothly as I read more. I ended up loving Mei’s voice. She deflected her embarrassment with humor and I chuckled a bit- more so towards the end.
I felt frustrated for her when her parents shoved all these expectations on her. And Chao gets you to understand them while getting irritated. This is their traditions that they’ve been following since birth; its hard to break out of that. But I still got angry, especially at the dad towards the end. We see Mei’s relationship with her brother, who has been disowned for quite sometime because his girlfriend’s struggles to procreate. I loved the support they have for each other.
Speaking of support, Mei has a lot of people supporting her. Nicolette, her roommate who at first I was wary of because of her attitude but grew on me and a multitude of passing characters that she runs into that make an impact on her. And Darren… I loved him. He had all the patience in the world. He was patient when Mei’s insecurities flared up and so understanding. He stood by her and they were so cute together.
So, earlier in the book, it’s made known that Mei skipped a grade and is 17. And it didn’t really bother me until about page 157 in the ARC when her and Darren were first getting together when I threw the book down and yelled HE DOESN’T KNOW HER AGE. I knew for sure that was going to be the dramatic thing that temporarily broke them up. But don’t worry, that’s never a problem, though she never does tell him her age now that I think about it. Overall, I highly recommend you get this book on February 6th because it was short and cute and a great coming of age story.